| In life, there are days and moments where everything we do does not feel enough, or face situations that are beyond our control. A common response to such instances is to doubt ourselves and our abilities, and that is a very normal and human thing to do. But the effect of self-doubt can cut both ways: It can either spur us to achieve our goals and thereby boost our confidence levels, or cause us to feel entirely powerless and paralysed. Fortunately, whether we allow it to work for or against us is mostly up to us. In this issue, we will explore the ways in which we can harness self-doubt to build confidence -- one step at a time. | | Moving from Self Doubt to Self Confidence It would be nice if moving from self doubt to self confidence just came naturally. However, moving from self doubt to self confidence is a practice you can adopt, with practice. When you are able to identify where your insecurities lie and what is stopping you from feeling confident, you can then start the process of moving from self doubt to self confidence. You will be able to work on eliminating the blocks that are keeping you from moving through life with assuredness. Here are some of the culprits for the patterns of self doubt and ideas for what you can do about them. | | Why confidence and knowledge can lead to smart money decisions Two common areas that cause people to procrastinate financially are knowledge and confidence. Logically, we know that financial literacy can boost our confidence to make informed money-management decisions. Yet, many people tell me that they lack the confidence to learn and absorb that financial knowledge, which holds them back. However, everybody is capable of effectively managing their money. While some need mindset adjustments, others need a confidence boost or a little reassurance that they are on the right track. Take small steps, follow and when doubt starts to creep in, remind yourself that money is only a tool and you are learning. | | 9 Habits That Are Destroying Your Confidence  | | Proudly Brought to You I seek to reach out to people who believe in safeguarding the interests of their loved ones. Let me know if I can be of help to someone you know or care about. We can make a difference to lives when it matters most. Cheers. | | Tan Hai Lih | | | | | | | | unsubscribe | You are receiving this email because you're my client, a friend or you've given permission to receive this email. If you'd rather not receive our emails, you can unsubscribe from our mailing list by clicking 'Unsubscribe' above.
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© Tan Hai Lih, All rights reserved. | |  | | Jinting, Accountant I am very glad to have Haili as my insurance agent. Haili is always very pleasant and patient in answering my questions on insurance. Over the years, she have helped me bridge my insurance gaps to ensure I have adequate coverage.
Her thoughtfulness and professionalism makes her my trusted go-to person for any financial advice. | |  | | Johnson, Operation Executive 在朋友的介绍下，我接触了AIA保险公司。对于多样性的保险业务，让我不知如何选择。当我真正去了解的时候，我认识了海莉（ Hailih )。她是一位很专业的业务员，在她耐心的介绍下，让我对多样性的保险业务能够轻松的了解，而且她会帮我分析目前最适合我的保险业务。她专业和耐心的分析让我对我目前购买的保险业务更加有信心，而且也让我对未来的生活保险计划更加清晰。多谢海莉的帮忙！ | |  | | Clarise, Senior Analyst I met Hai Lih at my first job fresh out of school. We quickly become close colleagues and later, good friends.
I have known her for 15years and that’s how long she has been handling my financial planning. From the time I was single till now (Mum of 2), I have trusted Hai Lih with all my insurance needs. She handles the policies for my kids, my parents and even my brother and his family.
I can always count on Hai Lih to recommend the best options for me, as my interest is her top priority. Whenever I need help (even if it’s not insurance related), she is always ready to lend a hand or give advice.
I have a peace of mind knowing that Hai Lih will take care of all my insurance needs. I have recommended Hai Lih to many friends and colleagues and I will definitely continue to do so. | |  | | Asilah, Teacher Hai Lih took over as my financial advisor 9 years ago. To be honest, I was a bit apprehensive at that time as I was unsure if we would have the chemistry. However, I was pleasantly surprised to learn that she is a sincere and passionate advisor who tries her best to tailor to my needs. I never felt pressured during our meetings when she patiently goes through the details of the plans with me. In fact, because of our shared interests (cats!), our consultations really feel like a casual catch-up with a long-time friend.
Thank you Hai Lih and here's wishing you continuous success! | |  | | Steven, Grab Driver First of all ,
Me and my wife would like to thank Ms Hai Lih for all the help in time of my need and care . Once she come to know of my medical hospitalization matter, she immediately advice us what to do , what to prepare and towards all future claim matter .
She is very dedicated , fast respond to all my enquiries and concerned for our matter .
Thank you very much !
Having her as our Insurance agent is not just feel like only a insurance agent , We felt just like a good friend as well . We can talk to her anytime as and when we have any change of plan , policy due to some financial matter arise especially during this pandemic period.
She listens to our interest and needs , base on our current financial situation and recommend the right plan for us.
Most importantly , She is patient , helpful and she explain in detail to us.
I would strongly recommend Ms Hai Lih to anyone who wish to engage a personal health insurance advisor . She is the right one !
Thank you once again . | |  | | Huilian, Homemaker Haili is my cousin cum insurance agent. She has been my agent since she started her career as an insurance agent. Haili is reliable and knowledgeable about her work. It is nice chatting with her when we meet up for periodic reviews. | | | | |
